The REAL reason why relationships break up

Relationships often break up because issues we are dealing with make us feel unhappy, when the promise of love is to make us feel good. And if it’s our partner who is contributing to the issues and us feeling this way, then surely THEY are to blame.

Now, there is a time to walk away from a relationship, particularly if abusive behaviour is involved or if differences can’t be resolved. But in most instances, what is triggering us are emotional wounds from our past that have not been healed. And so, rather than deal with the cause of the pain and let the healing begin, we blame the one we thought we loved and shut the door on what was once a loving relationship, thinking that saying goodbye will make us feel good again.

But here’s the point … Look to yourself first if something is being triggered within you. Take responsibility for what has come to the surface. Then, with an open heart, seek to discover the true cause of the problem. Go within and communicate with your soul, then feel, deal, and heal. … Allow yourself to FEEL the emotions behind the unhappiness. Come to terms with the cause and DEAL with it by letting love in and forgive yourself. Thank the younger you for wanting to protect your heart from pain, and then let it go so the wound can HEAL. If you don’t, the cycle will just continue on into the next relationship.

Think with your heart.

Don’t walk away and let a relationship die for all the wrong reasons.

~ Daniel Nielsen

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