Category Archives: Affair Recovery

Affair Recovery, Emotional Affairs, Flirting, Sexting, Trust

A WAYWARD SPOUSE ASKS FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO SAVE THEIR RELATIONSHIP AFTER SEXTING ANOTHER

Posted on by Sara White Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach
A WAYWARD SPOUSE ASKS FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO SAVE THEIR RELATIONSHIP AFTER SEXTING ANOTHER
02
Sep

The issue of Sexting! I believe people downplay the significance of Sexting outside of your relationship. Let me say straight off the bat that Sexting anybody behind your partner’s back is cheating. If you are having to hide your conversations, because you know there will be ramifications and that your partner will not approve of […]

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How & Why to End an Affair with a Married Person

Posted on by Dr. Savannah Ellis
cheating with married man in office
20
May

In this post, I will be answering a question from the other woman. This can be an extremely triggering and sensitive area for many victims/betrayed partners. I will also be sharing a letter from a betrayed spouse to the third-party/other woman. While this is a difficult topic, it is important to share the honest emotions […]

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Affair Recovery, Moving Forward, Painful Emotions, Personal Healing, Spying

Jealousy in relationships

Posted on by Sara White Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach
jealous boyfriend
01
Sep

Jealousy is normal or is it? Jealousy is a reaction to a perceived threat—real or imagined—to a valued relationship.(1) Jealousy is a normal emotion, arising when someone feels insecure about their relationship (whether that relationship is with a romantic partner, a parent, a sibling, or a friend). Everyone experiences jealousy at some point in their […]

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Affair Recovery, Marriage Counseling, Painful Emotions

Movie Therapy for Couples

Posted on by IRI
tarzan the movie
07
Jun

Cinema therapy is defined by Segen’s Medical Dictionary as: A form of therapy or self-help that uses movies, particularly videos, as therapeutic tools. Cinema therapy can be a catalyst for healing and growth for those who are open to learning how movies affect people and to watching certain films with conscious awareness. Cinema therapy allows […]

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Rebuilding Marriage After the Affair

Posted on by Sara White Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach
07
May

If you’re reading this article, I can assume you’ve made it through the affair and have decided to give your spouse and your marriage another chance. I commend you because this is not an easy decision to make. Let’s get straight to it: how to rebuilding marriage and make it even stronger than before. This […]

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Addictions, Affair Recovery, Relationship Abuse

Is drug or alcohol addiction affecting your love life?

Posted on by Guest Affair Expert
Unrealistic Demands
11
Apr

Drugs, alcohol, and intimate relationships are a potentially explosive mix. While it is true that substance abuse can have a devastating impact on one’s work and health, intimate relationships are often its first victims. Aside from the user, the greatest impact is often on the substance abuser’s partner. Addicts will choose their drug of choice […]

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Reconciliation: Couple Reconcile Seven Years after Separation

Posted on by Sara White Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach
Step 6 - Forgiveness
29
Nov

A divorce can only mark the end of a marriage legally but most times it doesn’t mark the end of the love felt by the couple.  As long as the love lives on, then a reconciliation after a divorce is always possible. The story of Steph and Ricky is a typical example of a love […]

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“I felt responsible for my wife’s infidelity” husband speaks

Posted on by Sara White Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach
22
Nov

I was left in shock when my wife said: “I’m leaving you.” I looked into her eyes, looking for the love that once lit those eyes but couldn’t find it. I asked myself, “Who is this woman?” I couldn’t believe how the woman I have been married to for the past two years could become […]

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3 Keys To Transform Your Marriage

Posted on by Sara White Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach
22
Oct

Recognizing you have a marriage problem is the first step along the road to transforming your marriage, and for most couples simply acknowledging there is a problem shatters the marriage myth. According to love stories, movies, and fairytales we are supposed to live ‘happily ever after’. But what happens when Snow White develops a drinking […]

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4 things to remember when the chemistry has ‘died’

Posted on by Sara White Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach
22
Oct

In our infidelity recovery sessions, one of the most commonly asked questions is “what should I do when I feel that there is no passion, chemistry, or spark left in my marriage?” At this point, couples are also reporting a large decline in their sex life, a lack of physical affection, and general feelings of […]

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