We can love many people in our lifetime, searching for our one true love. But an awakened man or woman learns how to listen to their heart, to follow the soul’s promptings and not the advice of the ego-mind. Ego always wants the easy way out. It has a plan. And it’s not for your […]
Often, when a relationship shows signs of breaking up, the tendency is to see the problem as being with the other person rather than ourselves. We fail to recognize that WE are carrying residual pain and unhappiness in our soul from past experiences, and that our partner is just triggering that which is already within […]
Relationships often break up because issues we are dealing with make us feel unhappy, when the promise of love is to make us feel good. And if it’s our partner who is contributing to the issues and us feeling this way, then surely THEY are to blame. Now, there is a time to walk away […]
happily ever after There are no guarantees that happily-ever-after will be your relationship experience unless you can take responsibility for your own life and make it happen. Doing the inner soul work and consciously practicing unconditional love, two people can champion the cause of a lifetime of love and happiness. Contrary to what some believe, […]
When you fall in love, fall in love with someone who knows your soul. Fall in love with someone who adores you. Fall in love with someone who loves you just the way you are. Fall In love with someone who enjoys listening to what you have to say even if you know it’s not […]
the surrender of ego-self Being an awakened soul has little to do with you becoming a better person, or even finding happiness within. They are both by-products. An awakening is to allow the total dismantling and eradication of ego-self, the false reality or façade that has been built, and seeing the story that has been […]
A woman’s expectation of wanting a “soul-connected, conscious, man who unconditionally loves and adores her,” is not unrealistic. It’s what a real man should bring to the relationship. But men, in general, have failed. We haven’t gone within and made the shift from our ego-self to our heart. It’s been about us, and what we […]
The call to love is a wonderful but confronting experience At first there is an instinctive attraction to each other. You are just following your heart and you feel as if you’re walking on a cloud. Then, as you get to know each other, you see some flaws in the one you profess to love. […]
An awakened man is a warrior of the heart. He has heard the deeper calling. He is conscious of his feelings and speaks the language of love. He sees the beauty of the world around him, is present-minded, and knows the ways of the divine. He is compassionate, authentically cares about people, and has the […]
An awakened man mirrors what an evolved woman wants. They are two, yet they are one. One gives and the other receives … one receives and the other gives … like the ebb and flow of the ocean waves. She calls to him to reveal his brave heart by taking bold action. He chooses to […]