Author Archives: Dr. Savannah Ellis
Sep
Question: I just found out that my husband has had 13 affairs within the last ten years of our marriage. I was devastated because I did not have a clue. I thought we had a perfect marriage. I was happy and he had told me he was. Two of the women were friends of the family. […]
Sep
In this blog, we’re going to examine lying’s after-effects, as well as 2 critical dimensions needed to rebuild trust and honesty so you can save your marriage and survive the affair. Read on…
Sep
When is the best time to ask for forgiveness or to grant forgiveness after marital infidelity? Many unfaithful partners will make the mistake of asking for forgiveness after affair disclosure. However this request will add insult to injury for the betrayed spouse. How can you forgive what you do not understand? It is just not […]
Aug
It should come as no surprise that the extortionists responsible for hacking into the Ashley Madison website, are now focused on extorting from the millions of Ashley Madison members. Around 8 AM USA PST, an email was sent to all those listed as having Ashley Madison accounts, from “Dewey@ImpactTeam.” Team Dewey says they will remove […]
Aug
Married couples will be facing considerable stress over the next few weeks in light of the recent Ashley Madison hack. In case you haven’t heard the news, the website AshleyMadison.com, whose motto is “Life is short, Have an affair” was victim to extortionists. Thirty days ago, the hackers demanded the company pull down their website or risk […]
Aug
One of the healthiest things that we can do for our relationship, is setting up healthy boundaries. Boundaries are a key component of self-care, and in order to set them up right you’ve got to know where to begin. If you have difficulty saying no, override your needs to please others, or are bothered by someone (even […]
Aug
When a woman finds herself in the middle or the end of a relationship with a narcissistic man, she can’t but help wonder “How did I end up with this man!” The key to a quick recovery, is not to beat yourself up over what happened, rather to understand what attracted you to this man […]
Infidelity: Children & Young Adults, Sex & Intimacy
5 Relationship Saving Tips for Parents of Young Children
May
QUESTION: Zoran from Arizona asks: “My partner and I have a 6-month old boy. The past few months have been a whirlwind. I’m starting to find my place within our new little family, but our sex life hasn’t yet recovered. What do I need to be thinking about to make this transition better for us?” Having a […]