By Dave Wills A long lasting happy marriage isn’t an easy thing to achieve. In fact, it can be a trial and involve strife. However, there are definitely ways that are proven to work for a lot of people that you can take on board – see these seven tips. Work on building trust in […]
“it is not my circus and not my monkeys” Bill Gordon, Ph.D., is a researcher who wrote about his recent interest in asking people about their internet sex behaviours. Bill found the common theme that continually popped up was that Internet sex was a “quick,” “easy,” “safe,” “harmless” way to alleviate marital boredom and explore […]
Guest Blogger: Janell Goplen Every generation of kids grows up in a very different world than their parents. Change is constant and so are changes to accepted ideas in raising children and parenthood. Remember getting the ruler to the fingers at school? Could you imagine if teachers still did that now? What’s out? […]
What affair victim hasn’t fantasized about a way to get revenge on their cheating spouse?
The Emotional Affair As we previously discussed, emotional affairs are real – and they hurt just as much as physical affairs. Your partner does not need to be physically intimate with someone to be cheating on you, and they do not need to engage in physical contact to be intimate with someone else. In order […]
After the Affair When you have been struck by news of your spouse cheating on you, your first reaction may be to take on some of the blame for the affair. However, this is not healthy. Not only is the affair not your fault (it only takes one person to have an affair – the […]
The short answer is no. No, it is not your fault your spouse cheated. The circumstances of your relationships and whatever led up to the affair do not take responsibility away from your spouse choosing to cheat on you. Yes, your emotions are all over the place, your heart is shattered into a million pieces, […]
Emotional Affairs Where is the line drawn between faithful and unfaithful? What constitutes “cheating”? The situation is all too familiar: you and your significant other have been having disagreements about an outside relationship you feel may lead to an affair, while your spouse assures you it could never happen. Many people have long-term friendships of […]
Couples therapist Dr. Rune Moelbak, explains when couples should consider marriage counseling and how marriage counseling can help restore love in your marriage
Do You Really Know Your Partner? You might think you know your partner really well. While it is fantastic to feel comfortable and familiar with the one you are with, you might know them as well as you think you do. People change every day and it is important to keep an open mind to […]