Author Archives: IRI

My husband the sex addict

My husband has had several affairs with several women, sometimes both at once.  We have been married for 8 years now. When he started cheating, I can’t be 100% sure, but from what I know it started in our second year of marriage into our eighth year off and on. I couldn’t understand why. Was […]

Verbally abusive cheaters

They say you will know when you meet Mr Right because the chemistry will be off the chain. This is exactly how it was for me when I meet my future boyfriend in a Vegas bar where I was working. He made me feel amazing. He knew exactly what to say, he had the perfect […]

How can I forgive and live with the man that deceived me

I just told him every hurtful word I could think of. I wished him ill. I told him how much I hate him My marriage is over. There is nothing to salvage when your spouse carries on a second life and deceives you every second for 12 years I don’t want that coward. I have […]

Book Review: The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity

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Do you want to know The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity ? Scott Haltzman is a distinguished fellow of the American Psychiatric Association and former clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at Brown University. Up to 40 percent of American marriages are rocked by affairs every year, and the chances of cheating go up each year couples […]

5 Signs Your Partner Might Be Bored With You

5 Signs Your Partner Might Be Bored With You

You remember the beginning of the relationship with your partner, right? It was filled with all-nighters, gifts, and doting attention saved just for you. Now that your relationship is comfortable –which is not necessarily a bad thing—the doting has stopped and it has you wondering if your partner might be bored with you. When you […]

How to Get and Keep Your Man’s Attention…and its not by withholding sex

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Are you struggling to get your man’s attention? … Have you withheld sex to do it?    You may think that this will get him to engage with you on other levels because he’ll do whatever it takes to have sex with you. And yes—it may accomplish that. But truthfully, it is one of the […]

Survey results: The #1 person your spouse will cheat on you with is “A FRIEND”

Who do cheat with?

Did you know that your friend has a 55% chance of having an affair with your own spouse? It is true. The survey results are in! A recent British survey conducted by YouGov UK for The Sun newspaper found that one in five British adults admit to having an affair, while a third of adults […]

3 Tips to Let go of Control

3 Tips to Letting go of CONTROL

“If we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking.” ~Proverb In my years living as a control freak searching for the secret to happiness, I have discovered one thing that always rings true. Life seems to get so much better when I give up control. I have […]

Making Sense of Infidelity

Making Sense of Infidelity

Making Sense of Infidelity …how understanding it all helps you Whether you are staying or leaving, there is value in understanding what the infidelity in your relationship meant, and where it came from. We cannot fully heal and let go, until certain processes are completed. When the storm settles down, as you move through the […]