Are you arguing with your spouse about the definition of what infidelity actually is? It can feel like you’re living in the movie Groundhog Day. The same old questions, with the same old answers. Cheaters tend to have their own thoughts on what constitutes an affair, because they put themselves into a fantasyland state of denial to […]
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Steve Harvey, “Act Like a Lady, Think Like Man,” tackles the age-old question on why men cheat.
How to give your opinion, and avoid a war In this video, The Art of Manliness talks about “How to Give Effective Criticism” in every day situations, but the advice is valid for application to relationships as well. I will point out, that if you are a couple in the middle of affair recovery, […]
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Does an affair mean the end of your marriage?
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When you find out your partner has had an affair, it can feel like the end of the relationship. You’re likely to be shocked, angry and hurt. All your family and friends will naturally take your side against your partner and tell you to leave, because they want to protect you from someone who has […]
Esther Perel: Rethinking infidelity
Dan Savage: Why Monogamy Is Ridiculous
Marc de Hond. What could be wrong with monogamy?
Paul Zak: Trust, morality – and oxytocin
The sex-starved marriage, Michele Weiner-Davis
Helen Fisher: Why we love, why we cheat