Author Archives: IRI

How to stop the everyday lying through confessions

transparency

“Love is a force that connects us to every strand of the universe, an unconditional state that characterizes human nature, a form of knowledge that is always there for us if only we can open ourselves to it.” —Emily H. Sell We go through so much of life telling each other ‘little white lies.’ Sometimes […]

Why Affairs Happen

why affairs happen

  The Monogamy Myth: A personal handbook for recovering from affairs by Peggy Vaughan. Why Affairs Happen There is no one reason for an affair. The reasons for any affair are a combination of 3 different kinds of factors. Factors that PUSH people into affairs (problems/faults/shortcomings of individuals or relationship). Factors that PULL people into affairs (excitement, curiosity, enhanced […]

Cheating Fathers = Cheating Sons

effect of affairs on the children

Study reveals insights into why people might cheat: The researchers found that men strayed regardless of their relationship’s health, while women would cheat as part of an effort to find a new partner

5 Things you must do to Build Trust after Infidelity

Will I ever be able to rebuild the trust of my partner? Will I ever be able to recover my sanity? Well, here are some good and bad news for you. Good news is that yes, you can rebuild the trust of your partner and make your relationship even better than before. Bad news is that it takes time and effort, and requires you to remain patient till the very end.

Correcting Cognitive Distortions in Low Sexual Desire

Researchers published findings from the largest nationally representative study of sexual and sexual-health behaviors ever conducted. Called the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB), it is one of the most comprehensive studies on sexuality in almost two decades. The researchers said they were struck by the variety of ways in which the subjects […]