Author Archives: IRI

VIDEO: A narcissist discusses his narcissistic personality disorder

Narcissistic Personality Disorder has nine traits. This is a very good documentary, which explains the nine traits of NPD. Sam Vaknin, author of Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited, shares his knowledge and personal experience of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Not everyone who has narcissistic tendencies has NPD. It is not easy for an ordinary person to […]

Healing From Infidelity

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Life certainly has its challenges, but little compares to the monumental task of healing from infidelity. As a marriage therapist for two decades, I’ve heard countless clients confess that the discovery of an affair was the lowest, darkest moment of their entire lives. And because affairs shatter trust, many seriously contemplate ending their marriages. However, […]

What are the tell tale signs of a cheating spouse?

signs of a cheating spouse

In this post, I will share with you some key tell tale signs that your partner is up to no good. The key is to observe their new behaviours, take down some notes on the time, day, and what you notice. When you have enough evidence to confront your partner about their behviour, they will […]

Four Reasons Why Money Doesn’t Have To Ruin Your Marriage

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We touched on the role of money in marriage in the past, but today we’ll be taking a closer look into the matter. It’s no secret that a lot of couples have been split apart because of money problems. The very act of mulling over a lack of finances is a source of great tension […]

Overcoming our fears of intimacy to find and maintain love

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Here are some crucial actions we can take to start breaking down the barriers inside yourself that push love away: 1. Look at your history – As we delve into the ways we defend against love, it’s helpful to look at our past. We can start by looking at our current or recent relationships. Where […]

Preventing and Overcoming infidelity

how to prevent an affair

After an affair, a relationship is more vulnerable than ever. The affair has created uncertainty and opened the future to other possibilities. Shirley Glass recommends these seven tips to ensure the relationship continues to heal.

Affair Facts

affair facts

Only 10% will marry their affair partner and then there is huge mistrust when married. If you leave someone and expect to have a long term relationship with the partner in the affair the chances are 1-2%. Shirley Glass Says- infidelity is more likely to lead to divorce if the unfaithful spouse is the wife. […]

Stop Compulsive Lying

pathological lying

Power Your Mind To Stop Compulsive Lying! Compulsive lying is a problem for millions of people and one that can cause them to weave tangled webs that destroy trust and relationships. Compulsive lying is not done merely to deceive. Often people will tell lies to save themselves from embarrassment or prevent hurting another’s feelings. They […]

Emotional and Physical Sexuality – Who You Are in Relationships ?

Who You Are in Relationships? This Two part series is highly recommended for anyone who desires a better understanding of their relationship type.  Tools to enhance your relationship are recommended as well! Having a successful relationship is the most important and yet the most difficult aspect of our lives.     Part 1 – 114min […]