Author Archives: IRI

Saying “Yes” All The Time: The Key to a Happy Marriage?

emotional needs

Dylan, a computer programmer from Sacramento, once asked me, “Is saying yes all the time the best way to a peaceful marriage?” He came to me some time ago because of the problems that have been brewing in his relationship. During one of our meetings, Dylan described in detail the kinds of arguments he had […]

Why do men look at other women?

why do men look at other women

Men look at pretty women or for that matter……they look at most all women. That goes for men who are married, men who are dating, and men who are single. That’s their nature. But is this built-in attraction with the female body a threat to their spouse, girlfriend, or partner? Why do men look at […]

Picking Up The Pieces After Infidelity

after infidelity

It’s very difficult for someone to be betrayed by another person they’ve trusted the most. The easiest thing to do is to break down and cry when your spouse finds love somewhere else. However, it is always up to you how you’ll handle yourself in this difficult situation. You can choose to file a divorce […]

Weekend Relationship Project #2 – It’s not about the nail

it's not about the nail

It’s Not About The Nail This YouTube video, “it’s not about the nail” has been a social media hit – now with well over 12 million views. I really love it. As an Australian with a wacky sense of humor, I see the learning value in using comic relief to highlight a sensitive issue. As […]

Cheaters: Cheating fiancé gets busted at the carwash

Cheating fiancé

We share these videos to help you understand various lies people tell when they are having an affair. This man had been with his fiance for 4 years. He was devastated to find his worst fears were true….  

The difference between bisexual and heterosexual cheating

Who cheats more? Studies that have compared the levels of monogamy find that bisexuals are the least likely group to report monogamy in their relationships. Lesbians are the most like to report sexual fidelity, followed by heterosexuals, and then gay males, and last, bisexuals. However, as a group, bisexuals, both men and women, also appear […]

How to break free from love addiction

revenge affairs

Love Addiction can be loosely defined as a dysfunctional relationship between two people in which one person strives, almost compulsively, to ‘fix’ the other person. A characteristic behavior in Love Addiction is enabling, in which the love addict ignores problem behavior in the other person or makes excuses for them in order to continuously feel […]