Author Archives: IRI

The Relationship of the Love Addict and Love Avoidant

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Toxic & Addictive: The Love Addict and Love Avoidant ……in LOVE In romantic relationships, the Love Addict repeatedly attracts individuals with particular signs – and in turn, people with these particular signs are attracted to the love addict. The type of person I am speaking of is the Love Avoidant. Like two powerful magnetic forces, a love […]

Understanding the Love Addict

Love Addiction

The Love Addict Love addicts tend to “love” others in maladaptive, compulsive, and self defeating ways that result in a diminished capacity of healthy or loving relationships with another person and the “self”. Love addicts can become obsessed and dependent to any type of person. Most commonly– love addicts become dependent to romantic love relationships. […]

Cheaters: A 21 yr old man catches fiancé cheating with a woman

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Cheating fiancé Is it ok if the fiancé is cheating with a woman? Would you allow your partner to cheat with the same sex? Watch what this man does when he finds out his fiancé is cheating with another woman.    

Rebooting your somatic experiencing and attunement

Reboot Your Relationship: somatic experiencing and attunement. Definition of Atunement A definition of attunement ‘is a kinesthetic and emotional sensing of others knowing their rhythm, affect and experience by metaphorically being in their skin, and going beyond empathy to create a two-person experience of unbroken feeling connectedness by providing a reciprocal affect and/or resonating response’. […]

7 KEYS TO GIVING GOOD ADVICE

The Internet is indeed serious bizness. With the abundance of easily available information, it’s tempting to throw this information around without restraint especially as an opportunity for self-aggrandizement. But there’s the subtle art of dishing things out, be it facts, opinions or advice in a healthy manner. If it’s out of excitement, we can somehow forgive or tolerate […]

Book Review: The Storm of Sex Addiction: Rescue and Recovery

The Storm of Sex Addiction: Rescue and Recovery The Storm of Sex Addiction is an informative and useful resource–a must-have for people who want to understand the illness, its treatment, and prevention. Lofgreen understands the challenge, answers the crucial questions, and offers constructive solutions. Each of the four parts of Lofgreen’s book has something to […]

The Key To Keeping Sexual Spark Alive In Long-Term Relationships

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A new research finds, responsiveness is the key to keeping the sexual spark alive in long-term relationships! Why is this so? A deep level of understanding and the willingness to invest resources is central to responsiveness.A responsive partner shows understanding to their other half, rather than dismissing their problems or ignoring them. It is about […]

6 questions to help you decide if it’s time to end your relationship

6 questions to help you decide if it’s time to end your relationship

Is it time to end your relationship? Infidelity is a huge slap in the face to anyone who has met its acquaintance. If you have meet with infidelity in your relationship, you will be faced with this frightening question: Should we break up? Let’s ask the relationship experts when is the best time to end […]

Are you in a relationship with a narcissist?

A narcissist will twist the rules to fit their current needs. For example, if the spouse of a narcissist is cheating on the narcissist, the spouse will be considered to be the dishonest and bad person, whereas if the narcissist is cheating it will not be wrong. This is because in the narcissist’s mind, the narcissist simply “fell in love” and followed his or her heart.