After an infidelity most people are faced with the feelings of guilt and they often ask this question: “Should I confess my infidelity to my spouse?” The opinions on this sensitive issue are divided: on one hand there are those who suggest that an infidelity, especially if it was an accidental affair should never be […]
Cheating isn’t just about having a secret sexual contact with an outsider. There are different attitudes portrayed by an individual that can be termed as cheating. In relationships, whatsoever an individual does with an outsider that makes his spouse feel betrayed or disappointed can be regarded as cheating. Micro cheating refers to different actions that […]
My name is Cossy and I am 19 years old. In my home, my dad had hired an electrician who comes around often to fix our electrical issues. From the first time I saw this guy, I liked him and we got talking. After some time, we became lovers and started having sex. My mum […]
In relationships we are often tempted to pick up our partner’s mobile phone and take a quick look at his messages or calls. But do you think it is right to do such? Obviously, the answer is no. Everyone who has been tempted to spy knows it is wrong. “There are legal reasons, but also […]
Marriage is not always a bed of roses although it might seem so during the first few months after the wedding. But as time goes on, misunderstanding, infidelity, intolerance and other negative attitudes affect the bond. If things aren’t put in check, it could get to a point where a spouse starts withdrawing from the […]
Marriage and relationships often bring two persons with different background and personality to live and interact together. Due to individual differences, misunderstandings and problems become inevitable amongst couple. A happy couple is not the one without problems but one who knows how to adapt and face the problems each time they come.
Once upon a time there was a man sleeping in his cabin one night. Suddenly, his room was filled with light and an angel appeared to him and told him that he had a job for him. He then showed him a big rock and explained that his duty was to push the rock with […]
Marvin (45 years old) and Vicky (40 years old), have been married for 20 years and have 4 children. They decided to share their infidelity experience. Marvin cheated twice and a child was born from his second infidelity. This led to their separation but later on they got back together. All thanks to their collective […]
Forgiveness is the act of setting someone free despite their wrong deeds. This is the first step of overcoming an infidelity. Forgiveness is something that you owe to yourself, regardless of whether the offender deserves it, asks for it or needs it.
An SMS discovered by chance on a laptop, an email you wouldn’t have read then all of a sudden, everything changes. He has a mistress, she has a lover. The discovery of an extramarital relationship throws the couple into turmoil. Some do get up and separate, others manage to cross the storm and try to rebuild their relationship.