Category Archives: Affair Recovery

3 Keys To Transform Your Marriage

Recognizing you have a marriage problem is the first step along the road to transforming your marriage, and for most couples simply acknowledging there is a problem shatters the marriage myth. According to love stories, movies, and fairytales we are supposed to live ‘happily ever after’. But what happens when Snow White develops a drinking […]

4 things to remember when the chemistry has ‘died’

In our infidelity recovery sessions, one of the most commonly asked questions is “what should I do when I feel that there is no passion, chemistry, or spark left in my marriage?” At this point, couples are also reporting a large decline in their sex life, a lack of physical affection, and general feelings of […]

My therapist said I should join a support group

You may already be receiving some guidance from a therapist, but he or she may have suggested that you develop or strengthen your support network. If this is the case, then you have come to the right place. Many people become overwhelmed with relationship problems, carrying around worries on their own, thinking that it may […]

5 Ways To Stop Divorce

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It may feel like it’s over and there is nothing you can do… But you have more power over your future than you think. They may say they hate you or never want to see you again. They may have already moved away. But you can stop divorce from happening in your marriage by following […]

6 Ways to Forget an Ex after a Separation

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Having a divorce might seem to be the only solution to some of the issues encountered in your marriage but have you ever thought about how you would live without that person you had once vowed to spend the rest of your life with? Getting separated from your loved one often leaves you with feelings […]

SHOULD I TAKE REVENGE ON AN UNFAITHFUL SPOUSE?

After an infidelity, it is normal to feel the desire for a revenge. This desire is often strong especially when you have turned down advances from others just because you didn’t want to be the unfaithful partner. To you, the marital vows should always be kept sacred, unfortunately, your partner thinks otherwise and that’s why […]

How to Deal with Depression and Stress After Infidelity

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So, it’s happened. Words cannot convey the pain you feel after finding out that your significant other has cheated on you; perhaps you thought your marriage was great- perhaps you knew there were some issues that needed to be worked on- regardless of the situation, you didn’t expect this. Infidelity shakes us to our core- […]

Infidelity, Separation and Reunion: Couple share their Experience

Marvin (45 years old) and Vicky (40 years old), have been married for 20 years and have 4 children. They decided to share their infidelity experience. Marvin cheated twice and a child was born from his second infidelity. This led to their separation but later on they got back together. All thanks to their collective […]

Nine Keys to Living Well after a Separation

“We were so much in love and he was all I ever wanted. He was the best thing that ever happened to me. Unfortunately, I woke up one morning to realize that he’s gone. Yes! Gone so far away. I tried my best to make him stay but the more I tried, the more I […]

How to handle your relationship after you’ve been caught cheating

HOW TO END AN AFFAIR WITHOUT LOOKING BACK

The act of cheating in marriage is a common trend as over 80% of adults grew up in homes where their parents cheated on their spouses. Have you ever wondered why most people can’t be faithful? The reasons are numerous. Man is an insatiable being and to complement this, he was given the ability to […]