Betrayal is one of the most painful human experiences. We suddenly discover that what we thought was true is not true. When a person we’ve trusted suddenly undermines trust, our world is turned upside down. Trusting a person means feeling safe with them. We trust that they respect us, care about us, and wouldn’t hurt […]
The end of a relationship is something that almost all of us will go through at one point, whether as the dumper or the dumped, or on one end of a mutual decision. If, like me, you’ve been through the wringer more than a few times, the emotions and practicalities can be anticipated in advance, and although […]
When you find out your partner has had an affair, it can feel like the end of the relationship. You’re likely to be shocked, angry and hurt. All your family and friends will naturally take your side against your partner and tell you to leave, because they want to protect you from someone who has […]
Will I ever be able to rebuild the trust of my partner? Will I ever be able to recover my sanity? Well, here are some good and bad news for you. Good news is that yes, you can rebuild the trust of your partner and make your relationship even better than before. Bad news is that it takes time and effort, and requires you to remain patient till the very end.
One of your final exercises in The 7 Step Infidelity Recovery Program is visualizing the relationship you want. You probably have never taken the time to think about the relationship you DO want. What would that LOOK like? What would you do? Where would you go? How would you treat each other? What rituals and traditions would you like to start? Where would you like to travel? You get the point I’m sure.