In this post, I will be answering a question from the other woman. This can be an extremely triggering and sensitive area for many victims/betrayed partners. I will also be sharing a letter from a betrayed spouse to the third-party/other woman. While this is a difficult topic, it is important to share the honest emotions […]
Category Archives: Forgiveness
One of the most difficult decisions you’ll make post-affair—beyond whether or not to save your marriage—is whether or not to forgive your spouse. The choice is yours, and there’s no right or wrong. You’ll either want to grant forgiveness, or it will be something you can’t abide the thought of doing. Forgive or Not Forgive: […]
Is it possible to heal after an infidelity? Can a broken marriage still be fixed? We shall find out from the painful but hopeful story of Gary and Mona. GARY’S STORY Walking the hallway of the house that night was one of the most difficult things I’ve done in my entire life. I knew that […]
Building strength to forgive others In my previous article Why a strong person can forgive others easily, i explained how forgiveness can easily happen when you develop enough emotional strength. In other words when you believe you are strong enough to remove the harm inflected on you by others then forgiving them will become much easier.
How to forgive someone There are lots of websites on the internet that contain articles about forgiveness and the benefits a person can reap after forgiving someone, While I found these articles interesting I noticed that most of them forgot to mention one very important thing about forgiveness which is how to forgive people!! I […]
Having a divorce might seem to be the only solution to some of the issues encountered in your marriage but have you ever thought about how you would live without that person you had once vowed to spend the rest of your life with? Getting separated from your loved one often leaves you with feelings […]
After an infidelity, it is normal to feel the desire for a revenge. This desire is often strong especially when you have turned down advances from others just because you didn’t want to be the unfaithful partner. To you, the marital vows should always be kept sacred, unfortunately, your partner thinks otherwise and that’s why […]
I watched a movie where a lady was engaged to a casanova. While the wedding preparations were ongoing her girlfriend asked her a question. “Sussy, are you sure you can live happily with Mark? It’s no news that Mark goes after everything in skirts so what if he doesn’t change from his flirtatious ways even […]
There are many reasons why some women stray from the arms of their long-term intimate partner into the arms of another. An affair is often an external expression of an internal fracture that may have occurred for a while. If she ever loved you once then there must be a reason why she prefers another. […]
Forgiveness is the act of setting someone free despite their wrong deeds. This is the first step of overcoming an infidelity. Forgiveness is something that you owe to yourself, regardless of whether the offender deserves it, asks for it or needs it.