Popular Misconceptions about Divorce You Should Avoid

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Marriage is a great institution that binds two individuals as one. Getting married is easier, but staying married is difficult. Every marriage faces challenges, and if the couples are not determined to work together and overcome their challenges, the thoughts of divorce arise. We live in a society that teaches different misconceptions about divorce. The […]

Should You Tell Your Spouse You Cheated?

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Once you have come clean about the affair, the general policy is “do ask, do tell.” Let your spouse decide what he or she wants to hear. Many people try to protect their spouse (and themselves) from the harsh realities by holding back hurtful details. Don’t do that. Once an affair has been revealed, the most important element in rebuilding a marriage is establishing trust. Trust is built on complete honesty.

Emotional Affairs- Chatting or Cheating?

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An emotional affair is a romantic liason without sex that often involves attraction, intimacy, attention and growing interest, and exclusion of your primary partner from this ‘friendship’. Renown relationship and author of “Chatting or Cheating”, Dr Sheri Meyers helps you determine if you are on a path to trouble!

How to Deal with STDs gotten from Infidelity- Part Two

Infidelity and STDs go hand in hand. Learning that your partner has an STD can be scary. According to the Center for Disease Control, combined cases of syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia reached an all-time high in the United States in 2018. A new report shows that from 2017 to 2018, the rate of infection has […]

The 3 Barriers to Forgiveness after Cheating

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One of the most difficult decisions you’ll make post-affair—beyond whether or not to save your marriage—is whether or not to forgive your spouse. The choice is yours, and there’s no right or wrong. You’ll either want to grant forgiveness, or it will be something you can’t abide the thought of doing. Forgive or Not Forgive: […]

Movie Therapy for Couples

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Cinema therapy is defined by Segen’s Medical Dictionary as: A form of therapy or self-help that uses movies, particularly videos, as therapeutic tools. Cinema therapy can be a catalyst for healing and growth for those who are open to learning how movies affect people and to watching certain films with conscious awareness. Cinema therapy allows […]

Dealing with Infidelity and STDs- Part One

It was a very sunny afternoon when I got a call from my doctor.  I had gone to the hospital some days back and complained about some symptoms. I noticed that I was frequently peeing and was experiencing pain in my abdomen. I had complained to my husband, and as usual, he didn’t say anything. […]