Tag Archives: cheating

10 Common Excuses People Give for Infidelity

One of the aims of having a monogamous relationship is to enjoy love, trust, and oneness. It is also to build a home where kids would grow up with both parents by their side. Unfortunately, all these can be destroyed by an infidelity.

Why is cheating wrong?

Author: Unpublished Asking why cheating is wrong may seem a silly question since just about everyone agrees that cheating is morally bad. Thus we need to address such moral issues and take steps to prevent it. Cheating is essentially acting dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain a personal advantage. It is morally wrong because […]

Why do People Cheat in a Relationship?

Why did you cheat on your partner? This is one of the unavoidable questions asked after the discovery of an extramarital affair. Over the years different individuals provided their reasons for cheating and some of the reasons were either considered justifiable or non-justifiable.  But irrespective of the reason for an infidelity, one thing is always […]

“I felt responsible for my wife’s infidelity” husband speaks

I was left in shock when my wife said: “I’m leaving you.” I looked into her eyes, looking for the love that once lit those eyes but couldn’t find it. I asked myself, “Who is this woman?” I couldn’t believe how the woman I have been married to for the past two years could become […]

4 things to remember when the chemistry has ‘died’

In our infidelity recovery sessions, one of the most commonly asked questions is “what should I do when I feel that there is no passion, chemistry, or spark left in my marriage?” At this point, couples are also reporting a large decline in their sex life, a lack of physical affection, and general feelings of […]

Tips for Successful Marriage

Not everyone who cheats in a relationship sets out to be the bad guy. At the beginning, most people are genuinely hoping to fulfill their vows for the rest of their married lives. However as we all know, life doesn’t always go to plan. Oftentimes we are dealt a deck of cards that seems almost […]

My mum slept with my boyfriend, what should I do?

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“My name is Samantha and I am the only child of my mother. She had me when she was 16 years old and my biological father had refused to take up responsibility so she had to face motherhood alone. I grew up knowing just her and she meant everything to me. Growing up I discovered […]

My wife infected me with STDs and now she’s gone

I got talking with some male folks and from our conversation, I learnt that there’s nothing that hurts as much as having an unfaithful wife. It even hurts more when the man loves the wife so much. Most of these men would care less about the number of mistresses they keep outside their marriage but […]