One of the most difficult decisions you’ll make post-affair—beyond whether or not to save your marriage—is whether or not to forgive your spouse. The choice is yours, and there’s no right or wrong. You’ll either want to grant forgiveness, or it will be something you can’t abide the thought of doing. Forgive or Not Forgive: […]
In this blog, I’ll explain why it’s not a good idea to suffer in silence, but also, to be selective about whom you decide to confide in. Please keep reading…
Post-Affair Reactions: How Wives May React
Building strength to forgive others In my previous article Why a strong person can forgive others easily, i explained how forgiveness can easily happen when you develop enough emotional strength. In other words when you believe you are strong enough to remove the harm inflected on you by others then forgiving them will become much easier.
How to forgive someone There are lots of websites on the internet that contain articles about forgiveness and the benefits a person can reap after forgiving someone, While I found these articles interesting I noticed that most of them forgot to mention one very important thing about forgiveness which is how to forgive people!! I […]
Recognizing you have a marriage problem is the first step along the road to transforming your marriage, and for most couples simply acknowledging there is a problem shatters the marriage myth. According to love stories, movies, and fairytales we are supposed to live ‘happily ever after’. But what happens when Snow White develops a drinking […]
You may already be receiving some guidance from a therapist, but he or she may have suggested that you develop or strengthen your support network. If this is the case, then you have come to the right place. Many people become overwhelmed with relationship problems, carrying around worries on their own, thinking that it may […]
Forgiveness is the act of setting someone free despite their wrong deeds. This is the first step of overcoming an infidelity. Forgiveness is something that you owe to yourself, regardless of whether the offender deserves it, asks for it or needs it.
A betrayed spouse shares her story of discovery and healing
One of the worst experiences I have had was dealing with my partner’s infidelity. My marriage to Ken was two years old when he cheated on me with my best friend. Ken was a strict and responsible husband so when his dirty secrets were exposed, I couldn’t believe he could do such. Besides, if it […]
It is really unavoidable for lovers to quarrel for some time. There are times that the culprit is the man wherein they have many tactics to say sorry to their girl and win their girl back. They are romantically creative indeed. But when the guilty party is the woman, they typically just kiss and make […]