Life certainly has its challenges, but little compares to the monumental task of healing from infidelity. As a marriage therapist for two decades, I’ve heard countless clients confess that the discovery of an affair was the lowest, darkest moment of their entire lives. And because affairs shatter trust, many seriously contemplate ending their marriages. However, […]
Jack Kornfield: The Ancient Heart of Forgiveness 59min The renowned teacher and author shares extraordinary stories of forgiveness–and explains how the next story could be yours
The path to forgiveness lies in understanding the reasons why people betray. People are true to themselves, so in that context, there is no betrayal. Betrayal comes from not being authentic to who we really are as individuals, and then not sharing our values with our partner. Forgiveness lies in understanding what each person truly […]
Everything that is taking place in your life is happening for a reason. Don’t resist it! Accept that all is as it should be, otherwise it wouldn’t be. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Realize that everyone is doing the best they can with what they know, you included. Connect to your heart and look […]
I never gave up on us No matter the difficulty I kept faith when I was weak You would be strong If you were weak Strong I would be Always protected my heart From invasion of others Stood in the Gap When needed to give family support Believed with my faith When you lost your […]
Dead Love He now has others in the spot where I used to fit My head upon his chest cuddled in a Godly submit Long ago he gave his emotions away Then his body followed for a lifestyle to stray The times he fulfilled his needs apart from me So many women who cared not […]
What affair victim hasn’t fantasized about a way to get revenge on their cheating spouse?
Making Sense of Infidelity …how understanding it all helps you Whether you are staying or leaving, there is value in understanding what the infidelity in your relationship meant, and where it came from. We cannot fully heal and let go, until certain processes are completed. When the storm settles down, as you move through the […]
In this blog, let’s examine some of the underlying feelings you may be experiencing and what forgiveness means to you. It may help you become unstuck, if that’s what you are feeling now. Please keep reading…