When a couple begins their affair recovery journey with me, and I tell them that one of the keys to forgiveness is the development of empathy – I get some really strange looks. Some people will share with me that they have no intention of keeping their marriage – “….so why bother developing empathy for […]
Readers Article Contribution Winston Churchill once said, “I do not ask how the wounded person feels. I simply become that wounded person.” Far too often, our society loses touch of this basic principle of empathy. And I am no exception. In fact, I have been quite the opposite for the past several months, writhing in […]
When is the best time to ask for forgiveness or to grant forgiveness after marital infidelity? Many unfaithful partners will make the mistake of asking for forgiveness after affair disclosure. However this request will add insult to injury for the betrayed spouse. How can you forgive what you do not understand? It is just not […]
Every couple is going to have disagreements, arguments and maybe even a few knock down drag outs, and all will be well, but I promise you, there will be times when a line has been crossed and your only way to mend the wound is by offering an apology. Why is “I’m Sorry” so hard […]
I want to help you put an end to your negative relationship patterns and start attracting the kind of love into your life that you deserve. Let me ask you…. Have you stayed in negative relationships from fear of being alone? I will show you how I went from dating the wrong men to […]
Winston Churchill once said, “I do not ask how the wounded person feels. I simply become that wounded person.” Far too often, our society loses touch of this basic principle of empathy. And I am no exception. In fact, I have been quite the opposite for the past several months, writhing in pain from discovering […]
The Tower of Remembrance Forgiveness Exercise As an infidelity recovery coach, one of my favorite tools to use with clients is the Tower of Remembrance exercise. Especially coming into summertime where the couple can go down to a lovely beach area, or river, and create a true experience together while releasing past hurts.It […]