Tag Archives: infidelity

My forgiveness and love was not wanted

Dead Love He now has others in the spot where I used to fit My head upon his chest cuddled in a Godly submit Long ago he gave his emotions away Then his body followed for a lifestyle to stray The times he fulfilled his needs apart from me So many women who cared not […]

Post Affair Holiday Blues: 14 Tips to help you emotionally survive the holidays

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Tip #1 for emotionally surviving the holidays: examine yourself Affair recovery is tough already. And then come the holidays. In Australia, it’s summer time, with hot weather, beach, family BBQs and outdoor fun in the sun. Everyone seams to be in a good mood – but you just can’t get festive. In the USA, there […]

Survey results: The #1 person your spouse will cheat on you with is “A FRIEND”

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Did you know that your friend has a 55% chance of having an affair with your own spouse? It is true. The survey results are in! A recent British survey conducted by YouGov UK for The Sun newspaper found that one in five British adults admit to having an affair, while a third of adults […]

Wrangling with Betrayal – A Path Toward Healing

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Betrayal is one of the most painful human experiences. We suddenly discover that what we thought was true is not true. When a person we’ve trusted suddenly undermines trust, our world is turned upside down. Trusting a person means feeling safe with them. We trust that they respect us, care about us, and wouldn’t hurt […]

Making Sense of Infidelity

Making Sense of Infidelity

Making Sense of Infidelity …how understanding it all helps you Whether you are staying or leaving, there is value in understanding what the infidelity in your relationship meant, and where it came from. We cannot fully heal and let go, until certain processes are completed. When the storm settles down, as you move through the […]

Helping Adult Children of Infidelity Deal With Their Anger

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It is important that adult children of infidelity feel able to share their thoughts and feelings with another person—be it a parent or trusted other—rather than hold onto any anger they feel towards the unfaithful parent. Often, expressing anger or hatred leads to deeper feelings of sadness, hurt, and fear. Working to understand the main […]

Children Of Infidelity

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Are children truly effected if one of their parents cheat? How do the children really feel about their Dad or Mom cheating? Ana Nogales, Ph.D., author of Parents Who Cheat: How Children and Adults Are Affected When Their Parents Are Unfaithful, coined the term “children of infidelity” to identify children of any age whose parent […]

Is my spouse lying to me or telling me the truth?

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In this blog, we’re going to examine lying’s after-effects, as well as 2 critical dimensions needed to rebuild trust and honesty so you can save your marriage and survive the affair. Read on…

Ashley Madison email leak. What to do about it.

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Married couples will be facing considerable stress over the next few weeks in light of the recent Ashley Madison hack. In case you haven’t heard the news, the website AshleyMadison.com, whose motto is “Life is short, Have an affair” was victim to extortionists. Thirty days ago, the hackers demanded the company pull down their website or risk […]