Often, when a relationship shows signs of breaking up, the tendency is to see the problem as being with the other person rather than ourselves. We fail to recognize that WE are carrying residual pain and unhappiness in our soul from past experiences, and that our partner is just triggering that which is already within […]
By Matt Gonzales Addiction is a chronic brain disease that can change a person’s life. The disorder can affect work performance and friendships. It can also affect the relationship between the person battling addiction and his or her significant other. Family members of people with addiction often suffer the consequences of a dysfunctional home environment. […]
Relationships often break up because issues we are dealing with make us feel unhappy, when the promise of love is to make us feel good. And if it’s our partner who is contributing to the issues and us feeling this way, then surely THEY are to blame. Now, there is a time to walk away […]
happily ever after There are no guarantees that happily-ever-after will be your relationship experience unless you can take responsibility for your own life and make it happen. Doing the inner soul work and consciously practicing unconditional love, two people can champion the cause of a lifetime of love and happiness. Contrary to what some believe, […]
How to begin the re-connection process after an affair
In my new book, The Ecstasy of Surrender, I discuss how to manifest your full sexual power, even if you are out of touch with it now. First, you must learn to completely inhabit your body and the moment. If not now, when? Holding back, fixating on performance, or letting your mind chatter and drift is […]
Are Unrealistic Demands Driving Your Spouse Away?
Life is about relationships. Connection is why we are here. Health is social — it is what gives us meaning, purpose and healing in our lives. This is our path and practice of love, healing fractured relationships and restoring the loss of social capital in society. ‘Our stories are not meant for everyone. Hearing […]
When you fall in love, fall in love with someone who knows your soul. Fall in love with someone who adores you. Fall in love with someone who loves you just the way you are. Fall In love with someone who enjoys listening to what you have to say even if you know it’s not […]