Tag Archives: sex

What Makes a Good Lover?

In my new book, The Ecstasy of Surrender, I discuss how to manifest your full sexual power, even if you are out of touch with it now. First, you must learn to completely inhabit your body and the moment. If not now, when? Holding back, fixating on performance, or letting your mind chatter and drift is […]

Book Review: The Storm of Sex Addiction: Rescue and Recovery

The Storm of Sex Addiction: Rescue and Recovery The Storm of Sex Addiction is an informative and useful resource–a must-have for people who want to understand the illness, its treatment, and prevention. Lofgreen understands the challenge, answers the crucial questions, and offers constructive solutions. Each of the four parts of Lofgreen’s book has something to […]

The Key To Keeping Sexual Spark Alive In Long-Term Relationships

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A new research finds, responsiveness is the key to keeping the sexual spark alive in long-term relationships! Why is this so? A deep level of understanding and the willingness to invest resources is central to responsiveness.A responsive partner shows understanding to their other half, rather than dismissing their problems or ignoring them. It is about […]

The New Social Trend of Hookups

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n this article, we review the literature on sexual hookups and consider the research on the psychological consequences of casual sex. This is a transdisciplinary literature review that draws on the evidence and theoretical tensions between evolutionary theoretical models and sociocultural theory. It suggests that these encounters are becoming increasingly normative among adolescents and young adults in North America and can best be understood from a biopsychosocial perspective.

Today’s hook-up culture represents a marked shift in openness and acceptance of uncommitted sex.

How to Get and Keep Your Man’s Attention…and its not by withholding sex

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Are you struggling to get your man’s attention? … Have you withheld sex to do it?    You may think that this will get him to engage with you on other levels because he’ll do whatever it takes to have sex with you. And yes—it may accomplish that. But truthfully, it is one of the […]

“Behind every great man, there’s a greater woman.

“Behind every great man, there’s a greater woman.” That phrase has surfaced in poetry, literature, song and cinema.  Even the semi-modern feminist movement adopted this quote as a way to reverse motivate female followers. Is it true?  How can it be true?  More importantly, is it a statement demeaning the nature of a woman’s role […]

6 Step Sexual Aversion Strategy

Overcoming Aversion to Sex The symptoms of aversion to sex are fear of engaging in sex, trying to make the sex act as short as possible, finding that you need to build up your confidence and resolve before sex just to get through it, thinking of excuses to avoid or postpone sex, and feeling ill […]