Exercise: Letter to the Lover The purpose is for the unfaithful partner to take ownership of the pain they have caused their spouse, and to reconcile with their own feelings and emotions as a result of their actions. While trust is currently damaged in the relationship, this serves as a “line in the sand” for […]

The 7 Step Program begins with retraining the couple to be affectionate with each other, like when they were courting. The therapist needs to be providing skills and exercises in building hope, or the entire affair recovery process will become “heavy” for both individuals. This program is focused on the couple deal directly with the infidelity, at the […]