Author Archives: IRI

How To Tell If He Is Checked Out of the Relationship

Prognostication within a relationship means being aware of what the individual does and how those actions relate to future behaviors. Ask anyone seeking to predict the weather or the winner of this season’s Bachelor and they will confess the low likelihood of success. Fortunately, targeting specific ways he acts with you will indicate the temperature […]

The problem with “clingy” partners

Clingy partners are most likely to cheat, according to a new study. A new infidelity study reveals that insecure people who find it hard to trust are more likely to commit adultery compared to their more confident counterparts. Researchers at Florida State University studied 200 newlyweds over a period of four years. Participants were regularly […]

Relationship Recovery Tip: Start a healthier lifestyle….together

For many of us in long term relationships, we tend to trust that our partners will be with us for better or for worse. We would expect that our significant other would tell us if he or she was not attracted with our extra body weight. Unfortunately this is not true. The truth is that […]

The Unreasonable Expectations of Men

In a relationship, a challenge arises as to whether a man’s expectation falls into the reasonable or unreasonable category. Taking time, considering what is being asked and the reason for the expectation forces one to prognosticate the future for themselves and the relationship. Nothing strains a relationship like an unrealistic standard. Let’s look at expectations, […]

Understanding the Five Stages of Grief After a Relationship Break Up

Seasonal Depression: Now’s the Time to Take Action

After any relationship break up you can experience a lot of contradicting feelings and emotions. Sometimes it may feel as if you are riding an emotional roller coaster and unable to get off. What you are experiencing is grief very similar to the death of a loved one. You are grieving for the lost relationship, for what […]

Advice for therapists: Helping Step-Families Survive

Advice for MFT & Prepare Enrich Facilitators: In honor of Step Families day September 16th, we  want to celebrate all kinds of healthy relationships by highlighting the uniqueness of blended families. We have asked the advice of our trusted step-family experts – Tace and Carmen Wieczorek, Trainers and Certified P/E Facilitators, and Ron Deal, co-author of The Smart Stepfamily […]

The 3 most common ways couples emotionally cheat on each other

Emotional Affairs

Emotionally cheating on someone is a real thing! It usually starts with an innocent friendship and without you realizing it grows in to something more intimate. There may not be any sex involved but once you emotionally start connecting with someone else and confiding and sharing things with them you would usually with your partner, […]

How to Save Your Marriage: 4 keys for marriage improvement

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She was 20, he was 25, and they were walking down the aisle with a 7 month baby bump between them. Some people thought they were doomed. Who would have thought that they would end up 5 kids and 18 years later still together? What is it about their partnership that somehow… clicks? Another marriage […]