How you can emotionally and spiritually attract another person

Often, when a relationship shows signs of breaking up, the tendency is to see the problem as being with the other person rather than ourselves. We fail to recognize that WE are carrying residual pain and unhappiness in our soul from past experiences, and that our partner is just triggering that which is already within us. The truth is, they are simply a mirror reflecting what lies buried in our soul.

Apart from giving and receiving love, one of the highest purposes for a relationship is to help us see where inner healing needs to take place. But so often, instead of understanding this and confronting our demons, we run like scared rabbits, leaving love behind. And then, in that wounded state, we look for a new relationship that we think will give us what we want. And so the cycle continues.