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Married couples and relationships that wither away

Married couples and relationships who are withering away

I see it all the time: Married couples and relationships who are withering away, married after many years but are simply pals, buddies, roommates. A long-term partnership gone stale. Newlyweds who get stuck in the weeds (wounds) after the honeymoon wears off and have no tools or resources to move forward. New parents, who after […]

The top 7 habits of relationally intelligent people

Love Addiction

  The joy of marriage The birth of a child The thrill of falling in love The excitement when your team wins If you think about it, the moments we live for are all connected to relationships. Sometimes it may seem that moments like these simply happen, but the truth is, it takes intentionality, skill, […]

Defense Against the Psychopath

Who do cheat with?

Looking back i understand now. I would not find any empathy in a psychopath and they spot earlier than me that i would soon look for empathy in them. So they somehow reflect and mirror my own empathy when i start to look for empathy in them. Oh, psychopaths could deceive me royally. Defense Against […]

The Ancient Heart of Forgiveness

affair recovery

Jack Kornfield: The Ancient Heart of Forgiveness  59min  The renowned teacher and author shares extraordinary stories of forgiveness–and explains how the next story could be yours

How to Choose the Right Spy Application

Choosing the right spy application is not necessary for your well being alone, but also for the well-being of your loved ones. Most people do not resort to using spy applications for malicious reasons or spite. More often than not, it is concerned parents and partners who are investing on spy applications to keep an […]

The 8 Vows You Must Make To Yourself

the couple bubble

Don’t wait to  New Year’s Eve to contemplate the changes you need in your life. In this blog, I will have you prepared to start your New Year on the right foot! When we get married, we make a lot of promises to our beloved – to ‘love and to cherish, in sickness and in […]

How to understand forgiveness by understanding people

Hilary Clinton talks about Affair Recovery

The path to forgiveness lies in understanding the reasons why people betray. People are true to themselves, so in that context, there is no betrayal. Betrayal comes from not being authentic to who we really are as individuals, and then not sharing our values with our partner. Forgiveness lies in understanding what each person truly […]

Listen to your soul

We can love many people in our lifetime, searching for our one true love. But an awakened man or woman learns how to listen to their heart, to follow the soul’s promptings and not the advice of the ego-mind. Ego always wants the easy way out. It has a plan. And it’s not for your […]

The importance of understanding context

Quotes Buddha

Growing up I was teased for being a dreamer….”Get your head out of the clouds, Joe!” was a phrase I’d often hear growing up – ‘Joseph the Dreamer! or Sometimes I would be called ‘Columbo’ after the TV Detective Character. Nearly 25 years ago, as a ‘collector of experiences’ I discovered the meaning of CONTEXT* […]