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Cheaters: A 21 yr old man catches fiancé cheating with a woman

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Cheating fiancé Is it ok if the fiancé is cheating with a woman? Would you allow your partner to cheat with the same sex? Watch what this man does when he finds out his fiancé is cheating with another woman.    

Rebooting your somatic experiencing and attunement

Reboot Your Relationship: somatic experiencing and attunement. Definition of Atunement A definition of attunement ‘is a kinesthetic and emotional sensing of others knowing their rhythm, affect and experience by metaphorically being in their skin, and going beyond empathy to create a two-person experience of unbroken feeling connectedness by providing a reciprocal affect and/or resonating response’. […]

Love is a wonderful but confronting experience

The call to love is a wonderful but confronting experience.

The call to love is a wonderful but confronting experience At first there is an instinctive attraction to each other. You are just following your heart and you feel as if you’re walking on a cloud. Then, as you get to know each other, you see some flaws in the one you profess to love. […]

The 13 Core Skills for Effective Listening in Love Relationships

When working with couples one of the critical skills (basic core skills) is listening, understanding, and validating (LUV Talk). Just because you hear something doesn’t mean you’re listening. Listening isn’t just a skill, it’s one of the keys to wisdom. It requires a calm and genuine curiosity to truly ‘understand’ something or someone for the […]

The Key To Keeping Sexual Spark Alive In Long-Term Relationships

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A new research finds, responsiveness is the key to keeping the sexual spark alive in long-term relationships! Why is this so? A deep level of understanding and the willingness to invest resources is central to responsiveness.A responsive partner shows understanding to their other half, rather than dismissing their problems or ignoring them. It is about […]

Staying with a spouse after infidelity

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Have you ever cheated? Been cheated on? Have you suffered some other devastating betrayal at the hand of the person you loved? In a recent article, author Pamela Haag offers her perspective on the issue of staying with a spouse following infidelity. She comments on the range of responses to news of infidelity — everything […]

6 questions to help you decide if it’s time to end your relationship

6 questions to help you decide if it’s time to end your relationship

Is it time to end your relationship? Infidelity is a huge slap in the face to anyone who has met its acquaintance. If you have meet with infidelity in your relationship, you will be faced with this frightening question: Should we break up? Let’s ask the relationship experts when is the best time to end […]

Are you in a relationship with a narcissist?

A narcissist will twist the rules to fit their current needs. For example, if the spouse of a narcissist is cheating on the narcissist, the spouse will be considered to be the dishonest and bad person, whereas if the narcissist is cheating it will not be wrong. This is because in the narcissist’s mind, the narcissist simply “fell in love” and followed his or her heart.