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Balancing “I” and “We” in Relationships

how to improve our attachments

When there is too much “I” and not enough “We.” When maintaining a sense of closeness is not a priority, intimacy atrophies. It can happen gradually. One day you wake up and suddenly realize you just feel so… far away… from your partner. How did that happen? And how do you get back that sense […]

The Seventh Month Itch – women who cheat in the 1st year of marriage

wife affair

G’Day Everyone! Elle Magazine Australia recently interviewed me regarding the growing issue of women having affairs in their 1st year of marriage. For those of you who cannot grab a copy of this months Elle Magazine, Australian Edition, May 2014, I have attached the article for you. Please feel free to add your comments. Do […]

My Journey Towards Forgiveness

Love Addiction

Readers Article Contribution Winston Churchill once said, “I do not ask how the wounded person feels. I simply become that wounded person.”  Far too often, our society loses touch of this basic principle of empathy. And I am no exception. In fact, I have been quite the opposite for the past several months, writhing in […]

Do you know the Four Horsemen?

Four Horsemen

These 4 behaviors are poison to relationships. Watch this and find out how to avoid them.   Criticism: It’s okay (and can be healthy) to complain about what’s wrong in your relationship, the problem arises when complaining turns into criticizing. A complaint focuses on the event or behavior you want to change, whereas criticism attacks […]

Drugs, sex, food, it’s not about the object and it may not even be chemical.

How do you catch a cheating partner?

What really causes addiction — to everything from cocaine to smart-phones? And how can we overcome it? Johann Hari has seen our current methods fail firsthand, as he has watched loved ones struggle to manage their addictions. He started to wonder why we treat addicts the way we do — and if there might be […]