Psychologist Savannah Ellis, who works with couples dealing with infidelity, says it’s a good idea to write down a plan of action – especially for those feeling uneasy.
“The best advice for those who are not in their logical state of mind is to always to write a step-by-step plan on what to address during the conversation and key actions to resolve the situation,” she says.
There are many pitfalls along the path to recovery, and it’s important to deal with them in a straightforward way. The key to overcoming these obstacles is developing honest communication. This is the critical ingredient that determines whether or not trust can be established in the future. By recovering from this experience, you’re prepared to […]
“Love is a force that connects us to every strand of the universe, an unconditional state that characterizes human nature, a form of knowledge that is always there for us if only we can open ourselves to it.” —Emily H. Sell We go through so much of life telling each other ‘little white lies.’ Sometimes […]
If and when an unfaithful partner chooses to tell, he or she must decide how. Experts suggest a candid, detailed discussion that steers clear of X-rated minutiae.
The Monogamy Myth: A personal handbook for recovering from affairs by Peggy Vaughan. Why Affairs Happen There is no one reason for an affair. The reasons for any affair are a combination of 3 different kinds of factors. Factors that PUSH people into affairs (problems/faults/shortcomings of individuals or relationship). Factors that PULL people into affairs (excitement, curiosity, enhanced […]
If you’re trying to rebuild your relationship after an affair, you’ll want to avoid making these 11 mistakes reconciling couples often make.
Will I ever be able to rebuild the trust of my partner? Will I ever be able to recover my sanity? Well, here are some good and bad news for you. Good news is that yes, you can rebuild the trust of your partner and make your relationship even better than before. Bad news is that it takes time and effort, and requires you to remain patient till the very end.
Infidelity Facts Following are some of the most common myths or faulty beliefs about extramarital affairs and infidelity. An affair inevitably destroys the marriage. Human beings are naturally monogamous. Monogamy is the norm in our society and most other societies. Society, as a whole, supports monogamy. Men initiate almost all affairs. An affair always means […]