Prognostication within a relationship means being aware of what the individual does and how those actions relate to future behaviors. Ask anyone seeking to predict the weather or the winner of this season’s Bachelor and they will confess the low likelihood of success. Fortunately, targeting specific ways he acts with you will indicate the temperature […]
A betrayed spouse shares her story of discovery and healing
One of the worst experiences I have had was dealing with my partner’s infidelity. My marriage to Ken was two years old when he cheated on me with my best friend. Ken was a strict and responsible husband so when his dirty secrets were exposed, I couldn’t believe he could do such. Besides, if it […]
how to trust again and regrow my marriage,
to learn how to forgive and move on,
Jack Kornfield: The Ancient Heart of Forgiveness 59min The renowned teacher and author shares extraordinary stories of forgiveness–and explains how the next story could be yours
It’s very difficult for someone to be betrayed by another person they’ve trusted the most. The easiest thing to do is to break down and cry when your spouse finds love somewhere else. However, it is always up to you how you’ll handle yourself in this difficult situation. You can choose to file a divorce […]
How to begin the re-connection process after an affair
the surrender of ego-self Being an awakened soul has little to do with you becoming a better person, or even finding happiness within. They are both by-products. An awakening is to allow the total dismantling and eradication of ego-self, the false reality or façade that has been built, and seeing the story that has been […]
After the Affair When you have been struck by news of your spouse cheating on you, your first reaction may be to take on some of the blame for the affair. However, this is not healthy. Not only is the affair not your fault (it only takes one person to have an affair – the […]
Betrayal is one of the most painful human experiences. We suddenly discover that what we thought was true is not true. When a person we’ve trusted suddenly undermines trust, our world is turned upside down. Trusting a person means feeling safe with them. We trust that they respect us, care about us, and wouldn’t hurt […]