Marc de Hond. What could be wrong with monogamy?
Paul Zak: Trust, morality – and oxytocin
The sex-starved marriage, Michele Weiner-Davis
Helen Fisher: Why we love, why we cheat
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May
Guest post by “Julia” My husband, like many unfaithful spouses, claims that he didn’t really consider (well, chose not to consider) the real-life consequences of his infidelity. While in la-la land, he convinced himself that his fantasy world would never collide with his real life and so it wasn’t even necessary to pontificate the possible fallout; you […]
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May
What is “secure attachment” and how does not having it create fertile grounds for addictions?
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May
Psychologist Savannah Ellis, who works with couples dealing with infidelity, says it’s a good idea to write down a plan of action – especially for those feeling uneasy.
“The best advice for those who are not in their logical state of mind is to always to write a step-by-step plan on what to address during the conversation and key actions to resolve the situation,” she says.
There are many pitfalls along the path to recovery, and it’s important to deal with them in a straightforward way. The key to overcoming these obstacles is developing honest communication. This is the critical ingredient that determines whether or not trust can be established in the future. By recovering from this experience, you’re prepared to […]