Tag Archives: Affair recovery

Ashley Madison email leak. What to do about it.

Ashley Madison Hack

Married couples will be facing considerable stress over the next few weeks in light of the recent Ashley Madison hack. In case you haven’t heard the news, the website AshleyMadison.com, whose motto is “Life is short, Have an affair” was victim to extortionists. Thirty days ago, the hackers demanded the company pull down their website or risk […]

My Journey Towards Forgiveness

My Journey Towards Forgiveness

Winston Churchill once said, “I do not ask how the wounded person feels. I simply become that wounded person.” Far too often, our society loses touch of this basic principle of empathy. And I am no exception. In fact, I have been quite the opposite for the past several months, writhing in pain from discovering […]

Does an affair mean the end of your marriage?

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When you find out your partner has had an affair, it can feel like the end of the relationship. You’re likely to be shocked, angry and hurt. All your family and friends will naturally take your side against your partner and tell you to leave, because they want to protect you from someone who has […]

Your relationship is, what you envision it to be

visualize the relationship you want

One of your final exercises in The 7 Step Infidelity Recovery Program is visualizing the relationship you want. You probably have never taken the time to think about the relationship you DO want. What would that LOOK like? What would you do? Where would you go? How would you treat each other? What rituals and traditions would you like to start? Where would you like to travel? You get the point I’m sure.

Another night again I wipe away tears

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Another night again I wipe away tears When will the hurt and pain end The Lonliness the sleepless nights The deep sadness knowing he enjoys his new life He purposely destroyed my dreams Leaving me nothing wanting me suffering The heaviness felt within my soul from the man I vowed to always hold His endless […]