I don’t accept you as you are

marriage advice

Nearly every person I have worked with has the same relationship issue. Trying to change their partner. In my experience trying to change our partner is one of the top three relationship issues out there (unhealthy co-dependency and bad boundaries are the other two). For example, years ago when I was dating around, once the […]

Is Pornography in Marriage Advisable?

Pornography is the exhibition and advertising of sex out of the doors of its original context, giving the act a fake, superficial or even dangerous perspective. In reality, pornography is all about massive business traffic. And for the beneficiaries of this traffic, it does not count what means they use, how many bodies they sleep […]

The Waiting Period: Attitudes That Would Keep You Smiling Till You Overcome

The waiting period is that season of your life when what you want isn’t coming through. It can be referred to as our night, trial, learning and building period. In life, everyone passes through a waiting period. For example; that moment after you have sent applications for a job and you’re waiting for an offer […]

Sex, temptation, infidelity, and the badge

cheating in police force
[box] Here is a very interesting article by a retired police chief about infidelity, temptation, and law-enforcement. My question for those that are married or plan to marry is how do we resist the constant temptation? Or is this a myth? Is it our egos? Or are some women just irrisistably attracted to a man […]

How to Handle a Short Tempered Husband

Marriage is a union that brings two people of different temperaments to live together. Usually, we see that after wedding, couples spend the initial part of their wedlock in finding a common ground for their treats, temperaments and potentials. This period is usually delicate as it determines how the latter part of their family life […]

Infertility: A Major Cause of Infidelity and Its Solutions

One of the major reasons of getting married is to have the opportunity of experiencing the joy of motherhood and fatherhood. For some people, they get blessed with children even before asking for it, others go through hell before having a child while a few never have a child of their own no matter how […]

The Assumption That Alcoholism Leads To Cheating

  Movies portray a certain scene over and over again; two people, who have significant others, start to flirt with one another, and eventually, that flirtation culminates in an affair. Typically, the first time the two individuals get together, there is alcohol involved. Why does there seem to be a link between drinking and cheating? […]

Negative Ways of Responding to a Partner’s Infidelity

When a person is in love, the brain responds by secreting hormones that produce feelings of pleasure, obsession, and attachment. These feelings are usually addictive. That’s why it is usually difficult for persons in love to quietly handle rejection, betrayal and infidelity from their partner. Just as the brain responds to love, it does respond […]

Eight Reasons Why Good Women Cheat

In previous years, men were more likely to cheat than women. They say “What a man can do, a woman can do better” and this was to apply only to positive things. Unfortunately, it has been applied in cheating as the percentage of cheating women has tripled over time. Why did this happen? As women […]