Tag Archives: Affair recovery

The Ruin of Infidelity

Shining the light on infidelity. Renelle E Nelson discusses why communication is so important in affair proofing your marriage. Renelle E Nelson is an Infidelity Recovery Expert and Certified in the 7-Step Infidelity Recovery Expert I’m passionate about helping couples get through the long-term impact of affairs, which includes potential divorce and its overall impact on […]

3 Keys To Transform Your Marriage

Recognizing you have a marriage problem is the first step along the road to transforming your marriage, and for most couples simply acknowledging there is a problem shatters the marriage myth. According to love stories, movies, and fairytales we are supposed to live ‘happily ever after’. But what happens when Snow White develops a drinking […]

4 things to remember when the chemistry has ‘died’

In our infidelity recovery sessions, one of the most commonly asked questions is “what should I do when I feel that there is no passion, chemistry, or spark left in my marriage?” At this point, couples are also reporting a large decline in their sex life, a lack of physical affection, and general feelings of […]

My therapist said I should join a support group

You may already be receiving some guidance from a therapist, but he or she may have suggested that you develop or strengthen your support network. If this is the case, then you have come to the right place. Many people become overwhelmed with relationship problems, carrying around worries on their own, thinking that it may […]

Tips for Successful Marriage

Not everyone who cheats in a relationship sets out to be the bad guy. At the beginning, most people are genuinely hoping to fulfill their vows for the rest of their married lives. However as we all know, life doesn’t always go to plan. Oftentimes we are dealt a deck of cards that seems almost […]

The Other Woman

If there is anything I love so much about my profession, it is the opportunity I get to listen to my clients as they pour out their depressing issues. What most depressed people need is someone to share their story with. With permission from my client, I would be sharing her story on infidelity. Do […]

Advice Needed: Can my marriage be saved after husband admitted his sexual addiction

“So I’m asking you all, are there any really good answers or hope?”   My husband and I have had this cycle of catching him viewing porn for what seems always. We’ve talked about it and it goes away then somehow comes back. About 4 or 5 years ago, I decided to check the telephone […]

Dr. Bob Huizenga – What patterns to break free from after the affair

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As a Marriage and Family Therapist and Psychotherapist I’ve spent the majority of my life (over two decades) working with hundreds of couples and thousands individuals experiencing individual and marital problems (such as affairs). I challenge you to get in a quiet place and ask yourself a few hard and tough questions that will affect […]