If there is anything I love so much about my profession, it is the opportunity I get to listen to my clients as they pour out their depressing issues. What most depressed people need is someone to share their story with. With permission from my client, I would be sharing her story on infidelity. Do […]
The Discovery: When I got married to Ken I had to relocate from my city to another where we rented a new apartment. It was a new vicinity with no friends nor relatives, just my husband and I. After some time I got talking with the lady next door named Melina. She was beautiful, kind […]
One of the worst experiences I have had was dealing with my partner’s infidelity. My marriage to Ken was two years old when he cheated on me with my best friend. Ken was a strict and responsible husband so when his dirty secrets were exposed, I couldn’t believe he could do such. Besides, if it […]
Our “WE” is broken Your “We” has two “I’s” within it, the foundation of the “We”, so it makes sense to first fix the foundation that supports the relationship. To help any couple visualize what they need to work on, we draw a nest of triangles. Each triangle within this figure represents one of […]
Intimacy is a process. It takes place over time and is not stagnant. In fact, any kind of stagnation in a relationship kills intimacy. Intimacy can also take many forms. One form of intimacy is cognitive or intellectual intimacy where two people exchange thoughts, share ideas and enjoy similarities and differences between their opinions. If […]
The way to manage anger is by recognizing it as a valid emotion with a purpose. Next time you are angry, look at it as a form of information that has a message for you.
Having a friend with the opposite sex is not wrong. But it can go wrong for your relationship really fast if you are not 100% mindful of your language and behavior. It truly amuses me to no end when an unfaithful spouse presents for affair recovery counseling, and tries to justify the innocence of […]
5 Reasons He Wants to Avoid Talking about His Affair at All Costs
When you have just found out your spouse has had an affair, it will feel like the bottom is dropping out of your world….. You can’t sleep… you feel sick… and you want to get your old life back. Everything is overwhelming and you have no idea how you’re supposed to react. But you need […]
