How can I forgive and live with the man that deceived me

I just told him every hurtful word I could think of. I wished him ill. I told him how much I hate him My marriage is over. There is nothing to salvage when your spouse carries on a second life and deceives you every second for 12 years I don’t want that coward. I have […]

My forgiveness and love was not wanted

Dead Love He now has others in the spot where I used to fit My head upon his chest cuddled in a Godly submit Long ago he gave his emotions away Then his body followed for a lifestyle to stray The times he fulfilled his needs apart from me So many women who cared not […]

Book Review: The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity

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Do you want to know The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity ? Scott Haltzman is a distinguished fellow of the American Psychiatric Association and former clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at Brown University. Up to 40 percent of American marriages are rocked by affairs every year, and the chances of cheating go up each year couples […]

Recovering from an Emotional Affair

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The Emotional Affair As we previously discussed, emotional affairs are real – and they hurt just as much as physical affairs. Your partner does not need to be physically intimate with someone to be cheating on you, and they do not need to engage in physical contact to be intimate with someone else. In order […]

Responsibilities After The Affair

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After the Affair When you have been struck by news of your spouse cheating on you, your first reaction may be to take on some of the blame for the affair. However, this is not healthy. Not only is the affair not your fault (it only takes one person to have an affair – the […]

Is It Your Fault Your Spouse Cheated?

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The short answer is no. No, it is not your fault your spouse cheated. The circumstances of your relationships and whatever led up to the affair do not take responsibility away from your spouse choosing to cheat on you. Yes, your emotions are all over the place, your heart is shattered into a million pieces, […]

Cheating Without Sex: Emotional Affairs Hurt Too

Emotional Affairs Where is the line drawn between faithful and unfaithful? What constitutes “cheating”? The situation is all too familiar: you and your significant other have been having disagreements about an outside relationship you feel may lead to an affair, while your spouse assures you it could never happen. Many people have long-term friendships of […]

When Should You Consider Marriage Counseling?

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Couples therapist Dr. Rune Moelbak, explains when couples should consider marriage counseling and how marriage counseling can help restore love in your marriage