You remember the beginning of the relationship with your partner, right? It was filled with all-nighters, gifts, and doting attention saved just for you. Now that your relationship is comfortable –which is not necessarily a bad thing—the doting has stopped and it has you wondering if your partner might be bored with you. When you […]
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Do You Really Know Your Partner? You might think you know your partner really well. While it is fantastic to feel comfortable and familiar with the one you are with, you might know them as well as you think you do. People change every day and it is important to keep an open mind to […]
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How to Get and Keep Your Man’s Attention…and its not by withholding sex
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Jan
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Are you struggling to get your man’s attention? … Have you withheld sex to do it? You may think that this will get him to engage with you on other levels because he’ll do whatever it takes to have sex with you. And yes—it may accomplish that. But truthfully, it is one of the […]
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Tip #1 for emotionally surviving the holidays: examine yourself Affair recovery is tough already. And then come the holidays. In Australia, it’s summer time, with hot weather, beach, family BBQs and outdoor fun in the sun. Everyone seams to be in a good mood – but you just can’t get festive. In the USA, there […]
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Love is always on a mission, listening to souls that are calling to each other, searching for the ones who are awake and actively doing the inner work to make them ready for partnership. There are over seven billion people in the world, but that isn’t a problem for love. Love is omnipresent, all-pervading. It […]
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Did you know that your friend has a 55% chance of having an affair with your own spouse? It is true. The survey results are in! A recent British survey conducted by YouGov UK for The Sun newspaper found that one in five British adults admit to having an affair, while a third of adults […]
Focusing: A Path Toward Befriending Feelings During the 1960’s, the psychologist and philosopher Eugene Gendlin asked a simple question: why do some people make progress in psychotherapy, while others don’t — and what is happening within those individuals who are benefiting from therapy? After analyzing hundreds of taped therapy sessions, Gendlin and his team discovered […]
Affair Recovery, Cheating, Moving Forward, Painful Emotions
Wrangling with Betrayal – A Path Toward Healing
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Dec
Dec
Betrayal is one of the most painful human experiences. We suddenly discover that what we thought was true is not true. When a person we’ve trusted suddenly undermines trust, our world is turned upside down. Trusting a person means feeling safe with them. We trust that they respect us, care about us, and wouldn’t hurt […]
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Dec
How Shame Suffocates Love and Creativity
Healing a Hidden Block to Intimacy
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Dec
Dec
“If we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking.” ~Proverb In my years living as a control freak searching for the secret to happiness, I have discovered one thing that always rings true. Life seems to get so much better when I give up control. I have […]