I got talking with some male folks and from our conversation, I learnt that there’s nothing that hurts as much as having an unfaithful wife. It even hurts more when the man loves the wife so much. Most of these men would care less about the number of mistresses they keep outside their marriage but […]
In the olden days our parents had trained the girl child to be obedient, respectful, homely and faithful. Such training actually helped them in building their homes but unfortunately, in this age, the story is different. Have you ever wondered why the rate of unfaithful women is increasing daily? Well, I would say that factors […]
The act of cheating in marriage is a common trend as over 80% of adults grew up in homes where their parents cheated on their spouses. Have you ever wondered why most people can’t be faithful? The reasons are numerous. Man is an insatiable being and to complement this, he was given the ability to […]
Infidelity has become a norm in our society in that most people don’t see it as a big deal to cheat. On a daily basis, we often get reports of couples who couldn’t take it anymore and had to call off their marriage and relationship because of infidelity. Let’s assume you love your spouse so […]
Movies portray a certain scene over and over again; two people, who have significant others, start to flirt with one another, and eventually, that flirtation culminates in an affair. Typically, the first time the two individuals get together, there is alcohol involved. Why does there seem to be a link between drinking and cheating? […]
If there is anything I love so much about my profession, it is the opportunity I get to listen to my clients as they pour out their depressing issues. What most depressed people need is someone to share their story with. With permission from my client, I would be sharing her story on infidelity. Do […]
In previous years, people got married having a mindset of staying together with their partners till death. Marital vows were respected and feared. This made cheating and divorce to be minimal. But in recent times, most people marry with a mindset of walking away any moment. Such people have little or no respect for their […]
One of the worst experiences I have had was dealing with my partner’s infidelity. My marriage to Ken was two years old when he cheated on me with my best friend. Ken was a strict and responsible husband so when his dirty secrets were exposed, I couldn’t believe he could do such. Besides, if it […]
As kids, we all had this bad habit of loving a new toy more than the old one. Sometimes, we would cry because we wanted to be given someone else’s toy. But as soon as we got the toy, the love for it faded away. In adulthood, such attitude is portrayed when we cheat in […]
Infidelity in the Age of Cybersex: Discovery, Truth-Seeking, and Betrayal Recently, the anxiety levels of millions of individuals who have been less-than-faithful to their spouses skyrocketed the moment they read the headline: “Hackers Threaten To Out 37 Million Users Of Cheating Website AshleyMadison.com.” Suddenly, (supposedly) married individuals who, for whatever reason, had willingly created (and paid […]